Always a Yellowjacket
Always a Yellowjacket
Baseball team rallies to honor one of its own

Dave Capucilli ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™99
Dave Capucilli ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™99 loved baseball. He played as a young boy, throughout high school, and then as second baseman for the Yellowjackets. He was the heartbeat of the UniversityÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s baseball team from 1995 to 1999, say his teammates who played alongside him for four years.
ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œOur team wasnÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™t the strongest to start,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� says Ryan Donahue ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™99. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œOn the plus side, that meant a lot of us got playing time. If weÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™d been a bit better that wouldnÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™t have been the case.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
As a team, they got better. By their second year together, the team was winning half its games. By their junior and senior year, the men won their conference, which would not happen again until 2019. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œIt was an amazing time in our lives,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� adds Donahue.
After graduation, teammates Donahue and Capucilli lived together in Queens. Donahue had a job in finance and Capucilli went to law school. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWe started our lives together.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� In the summer of 2013, Capucilli was diagnosed with multiple myeloma, a blood cancer that develops in the bone marrow. He passed away in 2013, just one month after diagnosis and four months after getting married to the love of his life, Kristin Kolich.
To honor Capucilli, his former teammates purchased a locker in his memory, in the baseball locker room in the Boehning Varsity House (see below).
ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œDave touched all of our livesÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”none of us will ever forget him and how nice, humble, and extremely funny he was,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� says Donahue. DaveÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s obituary echoes this, with words felt by all who knew him: ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œDave did not just live his life . . . he embraced it with contagious enthusiasm as evidenced by his large circle of true friends. When you were with Dave, he made you feel like you were the most important person in the world.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
When Donahue asked his teammates and their coach, Bob Hartz ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™90, ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™98S (MBA), to help fund the locker, everyone jumped in. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWithin minutes of reaching out via text and email, people were donating,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� he says. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWhat weÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™ve done is really a small drop in the ocean, but itÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s something.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
CapucilliÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s parents and his younger brother, Matt, are grateful that DaveÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s memory is honored in this way, in a place on the River Campus where Dave formed many friendships. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWe were overwhelmed and overjoyed when Ryan and our other ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œsonsÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”thatÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s how we think of themÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”presented us with a photo of the locker and the plaque inside it,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� says his mother, Jo Anne, who the team calls Mrs. Caps. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œIt is an amazing tribute.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
Kolich is touched, too, as baseball meant so much to her husband. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWhen I want to understand DaveÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s lifelong love of baseball, I think about his favorite film, The Natural,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� she says. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œIt beautifully weaves together a story of an imperfect yet finally heroic character and AmericaÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s love of baseball. In many ways the film exemplifies the way that Dave lived his lifeÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”with courage, tenacity, and love.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
CapucilliÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s friends and family also remember him at a memorial golf tournament held each September in his hometown of Baldwinsville, New York, just outside of Syracuse. Proceeds support the Capucilli Baldwinsville Community Scholarship Fund, which has provided scholarships to two qualified local high school students each year since 2013.
ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œDave was a kind and intelligent child who grew to be an example to everyone he ever met,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� adds DaveÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s father, Dennis, known to the team as Mr. Caps. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œI think about how he graduated 20 years ago and that we lost him in 2013, six years ago. His lasting impact on so many people is amazing to me, even after this much time.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œThe fact that his teammates did this for him is an example of their connection to each other and DaveÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s effect on them,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� says Mr. Caps. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œMy family is grateful that they, along with so many others, still revere his memory and hold him deep in their hearts.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�

A close-up view of the plaque inside the locker that honors Dave Capucilli
Go Gooch!
It took just one game for the team to adopt a family nickname for their pal, Dave. ThatÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s when they heard DaveÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s mom shout out, ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œGo Gooch!ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� It was a childhood nickname adopted by the team and then forever used in college. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWe started calling him ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œGoochÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� and ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œDavey GoochÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� when he was a baby,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� says Mrs. Caps. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œI was a loud and proud mom, so itÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s no wonder the boys ran with it.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
The Foursome
Gooch wasnÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™t the only one with a nicknameÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”everyone on the team had one. Donahue was known as Maestro, a self-anointed moniker that gives a nod to a favorite Seinfeld episode. Two buddies had aptly selected names, too. Bryan Hollihan ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™99 was called Sticks, because he wore number 11, and Lindsay Parker ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™99 was coined Tedward, because he looked like a combination of television news anchor Ted Koppel and Massachusetts Senator Ted Kennedy.
Field Clean Up
After every home game, the team would be tasked with field clean up. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œGooch always angled for a really good job, like driving the tractor to rake the infield. The whole team would actually pick him up and throw him onto the tractor . . . gently, of course,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� says Donahue. Mrs. Caps recounts how the boys would dance out on the field together, like Michael Jackson, to cover the mound during a rain delay. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œThey were so much fun to watch,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� she says.
Traveling Men
ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWe had a lot of pre-game rituals when we traveled,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� reflects Donahue. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œWeÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™d play euchre, share stories, and laugh together a lot.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� Donahue and Capucilli would always bunk up, too. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œGooch would get the sheet and IÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™d take the comforter,ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½� he adds. ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½œItÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s just what we always did. Those were good times that IÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™ll never forget.ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½�
If you are interested in learning more about how to honor a loved one in a similar way, please contact Jared Longmore, Director of Advancement for Athletics and Student Life.
ÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”Kristine Thompson, September 2019
