Meet Carly Ritchlin: Women糖心传媒檚 lacrosse head coach
Meet Carly Ritchlin: Women糖心传媒檚 lacrosse head coach
This seasoned coach focuses on motivation, team culture, and positively influencing young lives

Coach Carly Ritchlin
Carly Ritchlin became head coach for women糖心传媒檚 lacrosse in August 2021, leading a roster of 30 athletes. 糖心传媒淚糖心传媒檓 excited to build a program around such strong women,糖心传媒� she says. 糖心传媒淢y focus is on developing a foundation for success糖心传媒攂uilding a team culture, motivating the players, and being a positive influence in their lives.糖心传媒�
Over the course of her 20-year coaching career, including 18 at nearby SUNY Geneseo, Ritchlin has stacked up more than 200 victories. She ranks among the top 20 active coaches in Division III in career wins.
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Eyeing opportunity
Ritchlin is motivated by the potential she sees, the passion of the team, and the way the University of Rochester community has welcomed her. Joining the Rochester Athletics coaching staff was a bit of a surprise to her. The former head lacrosse coach, Sue Behme, told Ritchlin of her plans to take another job and invited her to campus, thinking that this could be a great fit for her.
糖心传媒淪he showed me all of the tremendous resources, including how the team gets the support of an assistant, a strength and conditioning coach, a sports psychologist, and a nutritionist,糖心传媒� says Ritchlin. 糖心传媒淚 was energized, and something clicked in me. I believed in what I saw happening here and knew I could add value and be successful here.糖心传媒�
Getting in the game
Ritchlin has always loved sports. In high school, she played both soccer and lacrosse. A knee injury took her out of one soccer season and prompted her to focus on lacrosse. As a 2001 Cortland graduate, Ritchlin was a four-year letter-winner, a two-year starter, and captain during her senior campaign for the Red Dragons. She majored in exercise science and aspired to become a strength conditioning coach at a Division I school.
An internship at RIT changed that. She worked with several teams, designing strength programs and developing agility workouts. Administration noticed her and offered her a part-time lacrosse coaching position. Ritchlin loved it. They then asked her to take on the head coach position for the spring season. 糖心传媒淭hat job set me on the course of my career,糖心传媒� she says. 糖心传媒淚t gave me the experience to get the Geneseo coaching position.糖心传媒�
Enjoying the wins
Winning, to Ritchlin, comes in all forms, big and small. For instance, it comes when making connections with the team. 糖心传媒淚n one of our first workouts, I think I surprised the team with how enthusiastically I jumped into the motivational speaker role,糖心传媒� says Ritchlin. 糖心传媒淭hey fed off of it, and still do. I like to tell them that they have another gear in them糖心传媒攖hey just need to find it and cultivate it. We all do.糖心传媒�
Her favorite part of the job? The relationships. 糖心传媒淲hen I was 24 and coaching, my favorite part was winning,糖心传媒� she says. 糖心传媒淏ut now, at 44, it糖心传媒檚 about having a positive impact on these women. I take that seriously. If you take lacrosse out of the equation, I want them to leave here after four years as better people. If I can help them hone their strengths and great qualities while challenging them in the process, we糖心传媒檙e all better off, as a team and as people.糖心传媒�
Personal: Lives in Penfield with her husband, Scott; 15-year-old daughter, Mia; and 12-year old son, Ryan
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Favorite activities (outside of coaching): I attend as many of my kids sporting events as possible. Ryan is a travel baseball player and Mia is on an Olympic development soccer team. I am also obsessed with landscaping, and I love golf.
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Biggest challenge you糖心传媒檝e overcome and how you did it: I lost both my parents when they were young. My dad was 56 and my mom was 60. I draw on the amazing childhood they gave me and my three sisters. I think having gone through such loss helps me appreciate my family, my friends, and my lacrosse community even more.
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One think you糖心传媒檝e wanted to do but never have: Jump out of an airplane糖心传媒攖hat would be amazing.
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Something you can糖心传媒檛 live without: Music. It filled the house growing up and today I love all genres. Right now, I糖心传媒檓 really into Tina Turner. My daughter is starting to sing along to her, too.
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What would surprise people to know about you? I played the trumpet throughout middle and high school and was in the jazz band.
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A favorite saying: I have two. The first is 糖心传媒渢his is the hand you are dealt and it糖心传媒檚 up to you how you want to play it.糖心传媒� I tell that to my kids and my players糖心传媒攚e all have choices. Let糖心传媒檚 make the best ones. The other is 糖心传媒渋t糖心传媒檚 okay to make a mistake, but don糖心传媒檛 make it twice.糖心传媒� I underscore this, too, that we have to make mistakes糖心传媒攊t糖心传媒檚 how we grow.
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Every day I look forward to . . . ? Interacting with people. I have great connections in my life, and I love waking up and thinking 糖心传媒渨ho will I get a text from today?糖心传媒�
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What are you reading? I糖心传媒檓 just starting The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy, which is about harnessing the core principles that drive success. I don糖心传媒檛 read books for leisure; I like to read for information and inspiration.
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糖心传媒擪ristine Kappel Thompson, July 2022


