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Good Books: Tim Russert’s Wisdom of our Fathers

Good Books: Tim Russert’s Wisdom of Our Fathers

Just in time for FatherÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s Day, University volunteer and parent Mitchell Hecker recommends Tim RussertÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™s , a New York Times bestseller.

Wisdom of Our Fathers: Lessons and Letters from Daughters and Sons by Tim Russert book coverWisdom of Our Fathers is a compelling read that reinforced a lot of the thoughts I have had about parenting, and about fatherhood, of course. Regardless of whether you are a father or a mother, the letters and memories from sons and daughters echoed the importance of giving your children time, attention, and love. The material things just donÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½™t matter. But, going on a road trip together; cheering at a soccer game, a high school theater performance, or a speech and debate tournament; or just picking up the phone when your college-aged child needs you, those seemingly small yet incredibly important moments do matter.

Volunteering for whatever groups my sons are involved in, including at the University, also brings about a whole other level of connection and satisfaction for me. This book really brought home for me that the best part of parenting is to have a front row seat to whatever my two sons are doingÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”to watch them discover themselves.

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Mitchell Hecker and his son Ryan
Mitchell Hecker with his son, Ryan Hecker '23. The Hecker familyÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”which includes Mitchell's wife, Lorrie, and other son, MattÌÇÐÄ´«Ã½”lives in Summit, N.J.